As a new PreK family, you’re likely navigating one of the biggest transitions yet: sending your little one off to preschool! If your child has a summer birthday, you might be especially thoughtful about timing. Children born in the summer often end up as some of the youngest in their class, which can prompt the question: Should we start PreK now, or consider starting a year later?
At Ä¢¹½´«Ã½, we believe there’s no one-size-fits-all answer because every child develops at their own pace. It is about focusing on readiness rather than just age or birthday. Here are some things to consider if you’re thinking about pausing a year and what true readiness for PreK looks like at Ä¢¹½´«Ã½:
For families with summer birthdays, the question often centers on giving your child extra time to be at home. Starting later can also mean they’re among the older children in the class, which might boost confidence, social skills, and even long-term academic confidence. On the other hand, starting on time allows them to begin building school routines earlier, make friends in their age cohort, and avoid potential boredom from repeating similar content.
The key isn’t the calendar. It’s your child’s individual readiness. If they’re showing strong independence, social interest, and emotional regulation now, starting this year could be a great fit. If separation feels tough, independence is still emerging, or they’re not yet excited about group play or stories, an extra year at home or in a nurturing play-based setting might help them thrive more confidently later.
At Ä¢¹½´«Ã½, we would advise you to speak with your child’s current caregivers, observe your child in group settings, and trust your instincts as their parent.
Our PreK-3 program focuses on play-based learning, social-emotional growth, and building foundational skills. Readiness isn’t about knowing letters or numbers perfectly. It is about being able to participate happily and safely in a classroom setting. Here at Ä¢¹½´«Ã½, we keep our class sizes small to support children during these important times of development. Our teachers are also skilled in this field to support the children and their parents.
Here are some key signs your child may be ready:
Other helpful signs include following simple one or two-step directions, communicating needs clearly, and having the stamina for a few hours of structured play without melting down.
If most of these feel solid, your child is likely ready to shine in PreK. If a few areas are still developing, that’s normal and many skills grow quickly with a little extra time and practice.
The good news…you can support readiness right at home with fun, everyday activities. Start small, keep it playful, and remember, there’s no pressure.
These steps not only prepare your child, but may also ease your own worries as you watch them grow more confident.
Whether you decide to start PreK this year or give your summer birthday child an extra year, the most important thing is choosing what feels right for your child. PreK is about joy, exploration, and building a love of learning. We would love to engage with you and your child to see if Ä¢¹½´«Ã½ feels like the right fit for your family.
You’re already doing an amazing job by thinking this through thoughtfully. Your little one is lucky to have such caring parents guiding them into this exciting chapter!
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Celebrate 5 years since graduation with your classmates. Reconnect, reminisce, and enjoy an evening of conversation, shared memories, and celebration with fellow members of the Class of 2021. Hearty appetizers and a selection of alcoholic and non-alcoholic beverages will be provided.
Celebrate 10 years since graduation with your classmates. Reconnect, reminisce, and enjoy an evening of conversation, shared memories, and celebration with fellow members of the Class of 2016. Hearty appetizers and a selection of alcoholic and non-alcoholic beverages will be provided.
Celebrate 15 years since graduation with your classmates. Reconnect, reminisce, and enjoy an evening of conversation, shared memories, and celebration with fellow members of the Class of 2011. Hearty appetizers and a selection of alcoholic and non-alcoholic beverages will be provided.
Celebrate 20 years since graduation with your classmates. Reconnect, reminisce, and enjoy an evening of conversation, shared memories, and celebration with fellow members of the Class of 2006. Hearty appetizers and a selection of alcoholic and non-alcoholic beverages will be provided.
Celebrate 25 years since graduation with your classmates. Reconnect, reminisce, and enjoy an evening of conversation, shared memories, and celebration with fellow members of the Class of 2001. Hearty appetizers and a selection of alcoholic and non-alcoholic beverages will be provided.
Come together with Ä¢¹½´«Ã½ alumni from across the entire 1990s for an evening of reconnecting and reminiscing! This combined reunion is a chance to celebrate the friendships, memories, and moments that made your Ä¢¹½´«Ã½ years so special. Enjoy hearty appetizers and a variety of drinks, including alcoholic and non-alcoholic options, while catching up with old friends and sharing laughs about your school days.
Saturday, May 16 | 7:30 – 11:30 AM | Murray Science Center
We’re bringing back birding! Who remembers the Class IX Bird Project? Don’t miss your chance to join this fun, family-friendly event with Mark Bromley, James Harris, Mike Johnson ‘88, and Bekka Joslin. We will meet at Ä¢¹½´«Ã½ and take a bus together. Don’t forget to bring your binoculars (we will have extras on hand if you don’t have your own).
Friday, May 15 | 6:30 – 7:30 PM | East Field
We’re excited to see Ä¢¹½´«Ã½ Alumni at our annual Alumni Soccer Game! This Ä¢¹½´«Ã½ tradition gives former players the chance to return to the field, reconnect with old teammates, and showcase their skills in a friendly atmosphere. Whether you played with us just a few years ago or several decades ago, we look forward to seeing you back on the field. Make sure to bring friends and family to cheer you on!
Friday, May 15 | 5:00 – 7:00 PM | Main Quad | No Registration Required
Join us for a fun BBQ bash at Ä¢¹½´«Ã½ with current families and Ä¢¹½´«Ã½ staff and faculty. It’s a great way to connect with your Ä¢¹½´«Ã½ classmates and enjoy delicious food before the Alumni Soccer Game!
No registration is needed for the Spring BBQ. Please join us!
Friday, May 15 | 4:00 – 5:00 PM | Haught Visual Arts Gallery at Ä¢¹½´«Ã½ | No Registration Required
Ä¢¹½´«Ã½ has always been a place where creativity thrives. Join us for the first-ever Alumni Art Show in the Haught Visual Arts Gallery and reconnect with the creative spirit that shaped your time here. This exhibition features work by 16 Ä¢¹½´«Ã½ Alumni artists, reflecting a range of disciplines, perspectives, and practices.
Brief Remarks at 4:00 pm will be offered by Gallery Manager and Curator Charlie Tadlock, followed by remarks from some of the Alumni Artists.
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Friday, May 15 | 2:15 – 3:30 PM | Miller Student Commons | Registration Highly Recommended
Ever wish you could go back and sit in your favorite class one more time? This Alumni Weekend, you can. We’re bringing you back “Back to Class” where you’ll have the chance to slip into a real, live Upper School classroom and experience Ä¢¹½´«Ã½ exactly as it exists today. Same teachers, same energy, same magic. Come relive the feeling.
Friday, May 15 | 12:45– 1:00 PM | Miller Student Commons | No Registration Required
Don’t leave lunch just yet. Immediately following the Kick-Off, Head of School Andrew Menke will take a few minutes to share what’s been happening at Ä¢¹½´«Ã½; the changes, the milestones, and the exciting things on the horizon. It’s a chance to hear straight from the source about the school you helped shape and where it’s headed next. No sign-up needed, just pull up a seat.
Friday, May 15 | 11:00 AM – 1:00 PM | Miller Student Commons | No Registration Required
Kick off Alumni Weekend the right way — with good food and even better company. Join us in the new Miller Student Commons for Ä¢¹½´«Ã½’s all-inclusive dining experience, and spend the lunch hour reconnecting with the faculty who made your time here unforgettable. Pull up a chair, catch up with old favorites, and let the weekend begin. No registration is required for this event.
Friday, May 15 | 1:00 – 2:00 PM | Miller Student Commons | No Registration Required
For many of you, Assistant Head of School, Todd Winters, was the first person who ever showed you and your parents around our 41 acre campus. Now he’s back to do it again! Todd will lead you through Ä¢¹½´«Ã½’s beautiful newest additions and recent transformations, giving you a firsthand look at what your years here helped build. Whether it’s your first tour with Todd or your second, you won’t want to miss this one.